Once a girl becomes an adult, it is necessary for the parents to
arrange for her marriage. When arranging for her marriage, be sure
to choose a husband for her, who is a Sunni Sahihul Aqida and not
and non-mazhab. Find someone who is a
religious person, and one who is pious. Remember that Nikah is the
Sunnah of the Prophet and a means of gaining piety and being
protected from evil.
Almighty Allah has made man the Guardian over the wife. It is for
this reason, that it is compulsory upon the wife to be obedient to
her husband. Remember, that to please the husband is a great
Ibaadat, and to disrespect him and be disobedient to him is a sin.
The status of the husband is very exalted.
The Holy Prophet (Sallahu Aliahi Wasalam) said, If I had to command sajdah (prostration) for anyone but Allah, then I would have commanded the women to make sajdah to their husbands. (Mishkaat Shareef Vol.2 Pg.281)
The Holy Prophet (Sallahu Aliahi Wasalam) also said, That woman who passes away from this world in this way, that her husband was pleased with her, then she will enter into Jannat.
1. The wife should not leave the home to go anywhere without the permission of her husband.
2. In the absence of the husband, the wife should not give any belongings of her husband to any person. In his absence, it is an obligation upon her to protect all his belongings, and without his permission, she should not allow any person into the home.
3. A women should never do any such action that will cause the husband to become upset.
4. To care and educate the children in the absence of the husband is also a great duty for her.
5. It is necessary for her to keep herself pure and clean at all times, always dressing neatly and looking presentable, so that her husband may be pleased when he looks at her.
6. It is necessary for every wife to understand the manner and habits of her husband, in other words, to know his likes and dislikes and not to act contrary to these.
7. It is from her duties not to become angry when he says anything to her and not to argue or backtalk with him. Rather she should comfort and calm him if he is upset.
8. She should not be demanding and should try her best to live in accordance with his income and not beyond his means. She should not be wasteful with his wealth.
9. As long as her in laws are alive, it is necessary for her to respect them. Never disappoint your husband’s parents.
Also Read
The Rights & Duties Of The Wife Towards Her Husband
The Rights & Duties Of The Husband Towards His Wife In Islam
Which Women Are Permissible to Marry in Islam?
Which Women Are Not Permissible to Marry?
A Perfect Family Man
Aims of Nikah: In Light of the Quran
Nikah and Benefits of Nikah in Islam
The Holy Prophet (Sallahu Aliahi Wasalam) said, If I had to command sajdah (prostration) for anyone but Allah, then I would have commanded the women to make sajdah to their husbands. (Mishkaat Shareef Vol.2 Pg.281)
The Holy Prophet (Sallahu Aliahi Wasalam) also said, That woman who passes away from this world in this way, that her husband was pleased with her, then she will enter into Jannat.
1. The wife should not leave the home to go anywhere without the permission of her husband.
2. In the absence of the husband, the wife should not give any belongings of her husband to any person. In his absence, it is an obligation upon her to protect all his belongings, and without his permission, she should not allow any person into the home.
3. A women should never do any such action that will cause the husband to become upset.
4. To care and educate the children in the absence of the husband is also a great duty for her.
5. It is necessary for her to keep herself pure and clean at all times, always dressing neatly and looking presentable, so that her husband may be pleased when he looks at her.
6. It is necessary for every wife to understand the manner and habits of her husband, in other words, to know his likes and dislikes and not to act contrary to these.
7. It is from her duties not to become angry when he says anything to her and not to argue or backtalk with him. Rather she should comfort and calm him if he is upset.
8. She should not be demanding and should try her best to live in accordance with his income and not beyond his means. She should not be wasteful with his wealth.
9. As long as her in laws are alive, it is necessary for her to respect them. Never disappoint your husband’s parents.
Also Read
The Rights & Duties Of The Wife Towards Her Husband
The Rights & Duties Of The Husband Towards His Wife In Islam
Which Women Are Permissible to Marry in Islam?
Which Women Are Not Permissible to Marry?
A Perfect Family Man
Aims of Nikah: In Light of the Quran
Nikah and Benefits of Nikah in Islam
